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Posts tagged ‘accountability’

Would You Change Anything?

I was speaking to Nancy today about past relationships – mistakes, heartaches and choices – when she asked if I would change anything. And I said, much to my own surprise, both Yes and No. The second answer, the No, is the simplest to explain. In fact, it probably seems as if it should be [...]

Look at me (differently)!

This was a response I write to a community post about feeling angry when the dating world treats you differently as an obese person versus a thinner person. * * * * * Some disclaimers: – This is far from scientific – This is not about the person, but PARTS of their personality – There [...]

Going Under the Knife. Who Do I Tell?

When I made the decision to have weight loss surgery (WLS), I told no one. Not exactly the smartest move when going forward with something as life-changing as this is. This type of commitment requires a certain level of support that is only found when you are open, honest, and reach out to the people [...]

"You have to help me. You can’t let me sleep with you."

“You have to help me. You can’t let me sleep with you.” I’ll give you a moment to let that sink in. That’s an actual quote from a friend and former lover, said to me today over a Pyramid Ale, a double shot of Patron (chilled, of course), and a half-eaten chicken Caesar salad. Roman [...]

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