“It’s not mine,” I said quietly. My hand in his, I cried. My head was suddenly in a fog. My heart was pounding. It seemed built up, almost ceremonious. He said I deserved it. He said I earned it. I was beside myself. I didn’t need it, not specifically. This is an honor, [...]
I was speaking to Nancy today about past relationships – mistakes, heartaches and choices – when she asked if I would change anything. And I said, much to my own surprise, both Yes and No. The second answer, the No, is the simplest to explain. In fact, it probably seems as if it should be [...]
I was asked last week if the talks I was having with someone would constitute “mentoring.” I use quotes because I was asked if I would consider it a Fetlife-applicable relationship and add Mentor to my profile. It came with a predefined ideal – not that it’s a bad thing – but it made me [...]
This was a response I write to a community post about feeling angry when the dating world treats you differently as an obese person versus a thinner person. * * * * * Some disclaimers: – This is far from scientific – This is not about the person, but PARTS of their personality – There [...]
